Suburban Mysticism: What happened?

Well, my intentions were good, I just misunderstood.  Meetup.com looks great, it definitely has it’s uses.  After signing up, you can create a group (costs about £17 a month) you pledge to get people together, beyond the computer, in the physical world.  There’s Meetup groups for everything imaginable, and i should use it to get out more, meet people, get involved in different activities, find new friends, find a partner, that sort of thing.

Or i could start a group that would be popular, would get lots of members, and make some money out of it.  Nothing wrong with that, if your providing a good service, why not?  That’s what people do here.  I attended a live drawing burlesque themed group.  It cost £10 to participate, lasted about 3 hours, in the back end of a pub in Soho.  It’s the only meetup i’ve been to, i went because a mate who’s an illustrator was going, not to lust over the model.  I  enjoyed it, drew lots of rubbish, but I really tried and one came out ok.

pretty exotic, eh?

There’s also more local community orientated groups and, well, this is not an advert but they probably explain its potential better than i could:

http://meetupblog.meetup.com

My knee jerk reaction when i came across it was to create a group, get like minded losers together and create a cool band – making money was not the motivation.  What happened was the people who joined the group tended to be outgoing, intelligent, mature types probably expecting a group leader with years of experience in theater and music, who would lead them to musical nirvana each week through impeccably organised 3 hour sessions, at the end of which everyone would agree that it was lovely, and would definitely attend the following week.

Nowt wrong with that sort of thing. I just misunderstood the meetup concept.  I couldn’t lead these people . I don’t have the experience, people managing skills, if anything the only experience that comes near to being relevant for the role is maybe contributing towards a good jam between, at most , 4 people,  providing some coherent  musical direction whilst being stoned on class A weed.

So I never fulfilled my pledge.  What was i thinking?  The group is now closed.

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